perspective
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Forget Who You Are And Remember Who You’re Being

The thing about identity is that we typically use the past as a way to identify ourselves rather than the present. We use yesterday’s emotions as the structure for how we should feel today. We use last year’s events as the evidence for how things go for us. We use childhood trauma as the foundation… Continue reading
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Take Another Look

Do you have eyes to see? To see what’s really going on? Sometimes in life we feel so confused. Words say one thing. Actions say another. People are complex and you sense one thing to be true but then a totally different thing happens. Then you begin to doubt yourself. Was I ever right? Did I… Continue reading
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Don’t Order What’s Not On The Menu

You’re craving a burger, so you hit the streets in search. There’s a Wendy’s right next to a Starbucks, and the Starbucks is completely packed — everyone seems to be going there. You walk on inside and ask for a burger, and the barista looks at you in confusion: “We don’t have burgers.” You look… Continue reading
