identity
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To Be Undeniable

No one will know how much studying you’ve done, but it’ll show. No one will know how much effort you put in, but the results make it obvious. While no one may be in the room with you while you’re training, studying, exerting yourself…everyone will see the fruits of that labor. It is said that… Continue reading
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Shooting Free Throws

Sometimes growth doesn’t look like change, sometimes it looks like repetition. That is still very much growth, it just shows up a little differently — a little quieter. Yet, in a way, the mundane repetition is a kind of growth stage that cannot be ignored, and serves a person in an exponential way… Continue reading
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Act From Identity, Not For Identity

The common move is to use other people’s responses to us as a permission slip for that behavior. We say a joke, open up in a certain way, act with a level of passion, and then…watch. How did they respond? Did they like that? Is what I did “okay”? We seek permission to be something… Continue reading
